thera re three reasons for that one we unable to have kids ourselves and few of us have gamets available two if we do have kids were not seen as a secure happy hetrosexual enviroment consisting of a man and a woman, but as two sick twisted women who insist on bringing kids into their home, and one of tehm is really a man whose had his bits cut off. the third option is if you happen to be heterosexual then you need to adopt, and then the agencies get involved and will likely see you as two gay men or a man with a sick twisted semi-woman/man thing that shouldn't be near kids (since wre all paedophiles anyways) so those of us who do have kids post transition are likely to a. be very stealth b. not talk about having kids lest child serviecs or the equivalent get involved
meanwhile if your FTM, then you gone from being percieved as homesexual to an acceptable heterosexual couple with a man who is incapable of fertilising his wife (not uncommon) and thus reasonable and acceptable for sperm donation.
sorry to be so down about it but I suspect that's why we never seem to have kids as much as most of us would love to be mothers
personally I looked into having a child with my then partner Sam and if we had stayed together we probably would have used donated sperm from my brother if possible
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one we unable to have kids ourselves and few of us have gamets available
two if we do have kids were not seen as a secure happy hetrosexual enviroment consisting of a man and a woman, but as two sick twisted women who insist on bringing kids into their home, and one of tehm is really a man whose had his bits cut off.
the third option is if you happen to be heterosexual then you need to adopt, and then the agencies get involved and will likely see you as two gay men or a man with a sick twisted semi-woman/man thing that shouldn't be near kids (since wre all paedophiles anyways) so those of us who do have kids post transition are likely to
a. be very stealth
b. not talk about having kids lest child serviecs or the equivalent get involved
meanwhile if your FTM, then you gone from being percieved as homesexual to an acceptable heterosexual couple with a man who is incapable of fertilising his wife (not uncommon) and thus reasonable and acceptable for sperm donation.
sorry to be so down about it but I suspect that's why we never seem to have kids as much as most of us would love to be mothers
personally I looked into having a child with my then partner Sam and if we had stayed together we probably would have used donated sperm from my brother if possible